题
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我的双极型防爆GF老是打断了我油然而生。这正常吗？
我们在一起6年。她大概给我留下10周左右的时间。她将长时间罚款然后突然她离开，并打破了我的心脏。它总是以同样的理由。主要是她觉得郁闷，不知道她是谁了。“她需要找到自己，”她说。然后，我们交谈，她回来了。只是这次它已经有一个月。无论我为她做什么它是永远不够好。我做了这么多的她，但她会找到一个负面问题和OCSP命令。 It's like she never sees what I do for her. I make her breakfast and lunch everyday. Since I work nights I am napping in the evening and "never have supper ready." Which is true, but seriously? I do all the cleaning and she never has to lift a finger. Then I leave one dirty dish laying around and she says I'm lazy and can't pick up after myself. I hold her hand and open the door for her everywhere we go. Then one time I don't and she says I never do this or that and that I'm not showing her public affection. The list goes on... Two months before we dated she had her first manic episode and was diagnosed. She was on meds for a month but started feeling fine and never took them since. Two days after our last huge breakup she was sent to the state mental institution for going into mania. She's out now after 3 weeks and is taking meds but still wants nothing to do with me. I had to pack and move all her stuff because she refused to see me. This is the first time she's moved out. Could she still be a little messed up from her episode or are bipolar people back to normal after they're released?
回答
嗨，马修。这是你很辛苦。人际关系是不够强硬没有双极性增加另一个复杂谈判。但是，这听起来像在这里 - 双极或不 - 你是在处理一个非常苛刻和难以取悦的合作伙伴。问问自己 - 如果双极奇迹般地走了，明天她会同样要求很高？多久你愿意忍受与？